How Can Families Deal with Difficult Alzheimer’s Symptoms

More than 7 million Americans have Alzheimer’s disease, which changes people’s lives by gradually impairing memory and behavior [1].

Alzheimer’s not only affects people, but also has a significant impact on families. Families frequently observe minor changes in their loved ones that develop into substantial challenges, altering relationships and everyday routines.

Navigating the many cognitive, behavioral, and emotional changes brought on by this degenerative brain condition can be challenging to manage. It is essential to comprehend Alzheimer’s symptoms and the difficulties families have when providing care to assist and care for their loved ones effectively. 

Understanding Alzheimer’s

Alzheimer’s disease is a neurodegenerative condition that causes brain damage and gradually worsens dementia symptoms. The following are a few early signs of the disease: 

  • Memory problems
  • Difficulty thinking and reasoning
  • Changes in mood and perception
  • Language problems

As Alzheimer’s progresses, these symptoms will exacerbate and necessitate progressively more extensive care and support.

Although the cause of the disease is complex, the accumulation of particular proteins in the brain is a major contributing factor. These proteins—tau and amyloid—create tangles and plaques that impair regular brain activity. Over time, this deterioration diminishes the necessary chemicals for the brain to convey messages.

The person eventually experiences memory and cognitive issues due to the brain damage. The condition gradually worsens over time to the point where it starts interfering with the person’s daily activities, necessitating round-the-clock care. 

How Alzheimer’s Impacts Families

When a loved one is diagnosed with dementia, it impacts the entire family. Spouses, kids, and even friends frequently take on new responsibilities, causing abrupt changes in roles.

Children frequently assume more active roles in their parents’ care, and spouses often take on the role of primary caregiver. 

Acknowledging and balancing these shifts in family dynamics can be challenging. Increased responsibility frequently causes feelings of confusion, annoyance, and anger. Other family members may feel abandoned, resentful, or guilty since the Alzheimer’s patient is now the center of attention.

Furthermore, it can be challenging for families to navigate the symptoms as they may find it difficult to handle the various cognitive, behavioral, and emotional changes caused by this degenerative brain disease. 

How to Navigate Alzheimer’s Symptoms

The emotional and practical toll can be overwhelming, but understanding the warning signals encourages compassion and readiness. The following are the difficult symptoms that families frequently experience, along with how they deal with them. 

Memory Loss Interferes with Daily Activities.

Memory loss that disrupts daily tasks is one of the first and most obvious signs of Alzheimer’s. Families witness loved ones losing things like glasses or keys, forgetting recent conversations, or having trouble remembering familiar names. These lapses lead to stress as basic chores like grocery shopping become difficult. Repeated questioning or dependency on notes for basic reminders indicates a shift from typical aging.

Families can manage by establishing regular routines, labeling storage for necessities, and exercising patience, all of which may help reduce anxiety in the person with Alzheimer’s and those around them. 

Trouble Planning or Solving Problems

Alzheimer’s disease frequently affects a person’s ability to follow plans or deal with daily issues; family members observe changes in activities like cooking or handling money. A loved one may have trouble tracking monthly payments, following a recipe, or balancing a checkbook, which could result in mistakes like unpaid utilities.

Families help by streamlining tasks, automating payments, or utilizing visual aids such as step-by-step guides. This symptom necessitates close observation since it may expose vulnerabilities to scams or lead to financial mismanagement. Therefore, it requires early intervention. 

Confusion about Time or Place

Families frequently notice loved ones lose track of time, dates, or locations, a common Alzheimer’s symptom. The person with Alzheimer’s might not remember what day it is, misinterpret the season, or become lost in familiar places.

Families can deal with this system by installing door alarms, utilizing monitoring devices, or making calendars with large-print dates. The emotional toll of witnessing a loved one so confused is still very much there, but these precautions offer security while maintaining dignity. 

Struggling with Visual or Spatial Tasks

Alzheimer’s disease can impair visual and spatial ability, making tasks like reading, measuring distances, and recognizing things difficult. Families witness loved ones having trouble navigating stairs, misreading traffic signals, or confusing colors, all of which can result in mishaps.

Activities that enhance cognitive function, such as solving puzzles, and improving home safety, like better lighting and eliminating trip hazards, are beneficial. This symptom emphasizes the necessity of safety modifications that balance protection and independence. 

Issues with Writing or Speaking

Alzheimer’s causes communication problems, which often become apparent when a loved one finds it difficult to write well, follow conversations, or find the right words. Families notice repeated phrases, pauses in the middle of sentences, or difficulties naming everyday items.

Families can deal with this symptom by employing simple language, maintaining eye contact, and encouraging nonverbal communication via gestures or art. Being patient during conversations helps people connect, but the slow loss of shared conversation serves as a painful reminder of the progression of the disease. 

Misplacing Objects and Loss of Retrieval Skills

Individuals with Alzheimer’s frequently misplace things in odd places and have trouble retrieving them. Families observe that this conduct goes beyond simple forgetfulness, with the person suspecting that the things were stolen. With messy houses and multigenerational living, this condition causes stress and confusion.

Families can respond by allocating specific spaces for essentials, utilizing tracking tiles for precious objects, and keeping duplicate keys. Although these techniques lessen stress, the underlying decline in problem-solving skills indicates that further help and monitoring are required. 

Mood or Personality Changes

Unexpected behaviors like irritation, anxiety, or withdrawal might result from mood and personality changes brought on by Alzheimer’s. Families witness loved ones change from being sociable to reserved. The person might get anxious in once-comfortable situations, such as crowded family get-togethers.

Creating calm surroundings, avoiding excessive stimulation, and partaking in routine activities like listening to music that the person with Alzheimer’s enjoys can all help you cope with these changes. Despite the emotional difficulties, families learn to embrace moments of connection and adjust to a new dynamic. 

Withdrawal from Social or Work Activities

A common indicator of Alzheimer’s cognitive impairment is loved ones withdrawing from once-enjoyed pastimes, social gatherings, or job duties.  Isolation results from struggling to keep up with responsibilities at work, sports, or book clubs because confusion or humiliation sets in.

 Families can simplify tasks to keep their loved ones interested and promote involvement in low-pressure activities like gardening or going to community dinners.  Encouraging social interaction is essential because it protects identity and lessens the emotional toll of the condition.

Alzheimer’s Research Association is a non-profit organization dedicated to helping caregivers of Alzheimer’s disease and dementia. We provide the latest information and news about the illness and helpful tips to help caregivers cope with their daily caregiving challenges. We realize the most important thing that a caregiver needs is financial assistance. Therefore, we provide grants to caregivers to ease their financial burden. Caregivers can apply for grants here: Alzheimer’s Grant Application

You can also help caregivers in their endeavor by donating as much as possible: Donation To Alzheimer’s Research Associations.

References

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